A Journey Through Infant Development: the Fifth Month

This has been an amazing journey, and I thank all whohands back down. Seconds later those little arms are
have joined me in it! The feedback has been great,stretching up high again. I haven’t yet seen you
and I’m so glad to have you share this amazingput your arms up because we say “So
adventure. This past month has proven to be a time ofbig,” but that should come soon as well. Another
even more milestones in my infant son’slittle game you like to play is “peek-a-boo.”
development. How is it that infants can grow so muchWe are at a very early stage of it, but you think you
in such little time?are hilarious. When you are under a blanket and I pull it
- You continue to grow so quickly. The thing thatoff, you look around like “Here I am world”
amazes me most about your last month ofwith a glowing face, making sure that everybody is
development is your ability to notice everything aroundwatching.
you, and then grab for any and everything! What once- The mornings are much better now. When you
used to be an easy trip to a restaurant now proves towake up, you lay in bed and practice talking. This
be much more of a challenge. Your ability to seekhappens after your naps now, too. It’s so nice
something out and then grab it in an instant is amazing!to be at the stage where you don’t need to eat
My beverage, plate of food etc. must be on the otherthe second you get up.
side of the table, or you are diving forward to grab it.- You have eaten your first solids. That process is so
- You are much more intrigued by things now, and areamazing to me as well. The first spoonful that went
beginning to explore more. For instance, my earringsinto your mouth immediately came out, as you had no
and grandma’s glasses are easily captured, andidea how to use your tongue for swallowing. You
must be removed before holding on to you. If you dopulled the funniest face, and your sisters got a big kick
get a hold of them, they go instantly to your mouth.out of that. Now you are able to get about half the
- Rolling over has become much easier, andfood down while the rest goes all over your bib, which
you’ve almost reached the goal of rolling fromyou like to pick up and smear all over your face.
your back to your front. Several times now, I’veIt’s quite a messy process. You have no idea
seen you roll to the side to grab something. If ithow to drink from a sippy cup yet, but we occasionally
weren’t for your arm getting in the way, youput one in front of you just to keep trying.
would have found your way over to your stomach byI continue to look at the gains my little boy is making
now. It won’t be long!each month, and am blown away by how quickly this
- I thought that feeding you last month was difficult, butstuff really develops. As an RDI® consultant, I have
has it ever become more of a challenge now. Bothcome to understand and cherish each one of these
your grandma and aunt made note of that as wellfoundational gains in his development. Has your baby
when they were taking care of you and trying to givemissed any of these critical steps in development?
you a bottle. They both asked me, “How onDoes your child with autism lack any of these abilities?
earth do you feed this boy? He is so nosey!” IRDI® is a development-based program that
just simply agree, and say that I do the best I can.evaluates these early foundations in development, and
It’s quite a trick to hold the bottle and move itfills any missed ones through age appropriate
along with your constantly moving head.approaches. The gains we have seen children make
- You are beginning to pick up on social routines now.have been fascinating. If you see these as gaps in the
When you are holding on to something, you like to putdevelopment of your child(ren), I hope you come to join
both hands up over your head. When you do that, weus as we revisit this journey through remedial
say “So big!” You then smile, and put yourdevelopment with our RDI® families.