Breathless Not Helpless

Those of us left in a wheelchair due to a chronicword is not synonymous with fatal.
disease (COPD) that no longer makes it possible forIt is true that for most people they will have to live with
us to move around without aid, can quickly start to feelthe results of the chronic disease for the rest of their
alone and frustrated with our lives.lives up until death, but it is also true that usually they
The normal tasks that most people take for grantedhave plenty of years of life left before this occurs.
quickly become out of our reach such as using theWith this fact in mind, now is the time to take back
restroom, driving a car, or simply taking a walk ascontrol of your life because even if your illness has
weather can quickly influence our ability to gettaken control of certain aspects of your body it has
outdoors. Instead, we are left in a world in which wenot taken control of your life and neither will it be able
are dependent on someone else for our every needto unless you allow it that power.
which can quickly breed resentment, hate, andYour mind, emotions, and enjoyment out of life are still
self-loathing.all in your hands if you learn to understand your
Most of these feelings result from an overwhelmingdisease and learn effective coping mechanisms that
loss of control over our lives that the illness or maladywill help take the place of the hopelessness and anger
leaves us with, and the even worse part is that sincethat comes from the illness. Instead of getting angry at
we are suffering from a chronic ailment there is nothose around you, get angry at your illness and rage
solution or future in sight.war against it by taking back control of your days.
This leads in turn, to even more apathy, hopelessness,One of the best ways to do this is to find a support
and overall deep sunken depression as the light at thegroup of people who suffer from the same condition
end of the tunnel quickly gets shut off. However,as you that can offer their advice, well placed
becoming homebound in a wheelchair does not havesympathy, understanding, and simple friendship.
to mean that we are alone, if we develop the rightAlthough this may seem hard to do if you are
coping mechanisms and tools to help gain back ourhomebound, with the advent of the internet there are
sense of control.now many support groups and forums online for those
The first thing that most health advisors willthat take advantage of the opportunity to get involved.
recommend to someone that is homebound in aHere you will not only find a wealth of support, but also
wheelchair or homebound period, is that they seek outa wealth of information that when combined can give
a fuller understanding of their health condition. Evenyou back your lease on life.
though a health malady may be termed chronic, this