Caregiver Stress

Caring for senior citizens or disabled individuals can bedoing your best.
difficult and often results in emotional and physical- Establish a daily routine and make prioritized "to do"
strain known as caregiver stress. This stress canlists.
cause one to feel frustrated or angry, guilty, lonely, and- Stay connected with friends and family members,
exhausted. And, although caregivers are generally inand make time each week to spend time with others
good health, research indicates that caregivers arein a capacity that is relaxing and enjoyable for you.
more likely to experience depression and anxiety, have- Join a support group for caregivers; it can help remind
higher levels of stress-induced hormones, and have ayou that you are not alone. Also, other caregivers can
higher incidence of obesity. Still, one research studyoffer support and advice for how to cope with what
has found a difference in health between caregiversyou are going through.
who felt stressed and those who did not. Senior- Finally, take care of yourself. Eat well-balanced meals,
citizens who felt stressed as a result of taking care ofmaintain a healthy weight, and get enough sleep. Talk
a disabled spouse were more likely to die within fourwith your doctor about any sickness or feelings of
years of the study than their counterparts who did notdepression or anxiety that you may be experiencing.
feel stressed. For reasons like this, it is important thatTaking a BreakSometimes, it may be necessary to
caregivers providing elder care or care for a disabledtake a break from caregiving to reduce stress.
individual understand how to avoid and cope withRespite care provides relief services for people who
caregiver stress.need rest after caring for others. There are various
Symptomstypes including:
If you are caregiver it is likely that have caregiver- In-home Respite Care. This type of elder care
stress if you experience the following symptoms:generally involves in home health care services from
- Altered sleeping habitscompanionship to nursing.
- Weight loss or gain- Adult Day Care. This type of elder care is often held
- Constantly feeling worried, overwhelmed, or sadin community centers, and sometimes transportation to
- Being irritable and easily angeredand from the center is provided.
- Frequent and unexplainable headaches or other- Short-term Nursing Homes. These types of nursing
bodily painhomes provide care for senior citizens over the
If you feel like physically or emotionally harmingshort-term and are useful when a caregiver has to go
yourself or the person you are caring for, talk to yourout of town for few weeks.
doctor immediately. He or she will be able to refer youIf you are feeling overwhelmed working and taking
to a health care specialist that can help.care of a relative, it may be helpful to take a break
Preventing and Alleviating Stressfrom your work. Ask Human Resources about
Caregiver stress is associated with many seriousdifferent options for taking leave. The federal Family
health problems and should never be dismissed asand Medical Leave Act allows one to take as much
"just stress." Rather it is important that those providingas 12 weeks of unpaid leave to care for a loved one.
care for senior citizens or disabled individuals takeHiring an in home health aide will also ensure your
steps to reduce their stress.loved one is cared for, if you cannot always be there
If you feel like physically or emotionally harmingor provide the care yourself. Home health aides can
yourself or the person you are caring for, talk to yourprovide care for as little as a few hours a week to 24
doctor immediately. He or she will be able to refer youhours a day. They provide assistance with personal
to a health care specialist that can help.care, like bathing or brushing teeth. They offer
Preventing and Alleviating Stresshousekeeping services, like laundry and light cleaning.
Caregiver stress is associated with many seriousThey also act as companions providing social
health problems and should never be dismissed asinteraction. Finally, they assist with administering
"just stress." Rather it is important that those providingmedications and other treatments. You can hire a
care for senior citizens or disabled individuals takehome health aide through an in home health care
steps to reduce their stress.agency or independently, generally independent
Taking a problem-solving approach to caring for otherscaregivers are less expensive.
helps to decrease stress. For example, if someoneCaregiving Services in your Community
with Alzheimer's continues to ask the same questionAsking your doctor or case manager about resources
again and again, answer the question but then redirectin your community is a good place to begin locating
him or her. Say something like "Lets get this laundryadditional caregiving services. Some of these services
started," or include the person in a simple task likemay be free while others require payment. Local
folding clothes.churches, synagogues, and community centers may
If you are caring for someone with a certain diseasegive free services for senior citizens or disabled
or disability, be sure you understand their condition. Useindividuals. The government also provides many
your doctor, the library, or the Internet to educatebenefits at the federal, state, and local levels for senior
yourself. Also, your hospital or doctor's office may givecitizen elder care and care for disabled individuals. To
classes that teach you how to take care of someonefind out more about these, you can contact your local
with the condition your loved one has.Area Agency on Aging. You can also look into respite
Tips for Reducing Stresscare or in home health care services available in your
- Research and use community resources that arearea in your phone book.
available for both the person being cared for and thePaying for Home Health Care and Other Caregiving
caregiver.Services
- Do not be afraid to ask for and accept help. Often,Medicare, Medicaid, private "Medigap" policies or health
friends and family members are willing to provideinsurance, or long-term care insurance may cover
assistance like taking the elderly or disabled person onsome of costs of in home health care. Other costs will
a walk once a week or picking up groceries for you.have to be paid for out of pocket.
- Ask family members to contribute to the costs ofIn home health care costs depend on the services you
taking care of the relative who needs help.use. Non-medical workers like companions or
- Say "no" when necessary, it is important not to takehousekeepers are much less expensive than medical
on too much responsibility that can lead to additionalworkers like nurses. Also, the cost of using in home
stress.health care agencies vary, but is generally more
- Identify what you are able to change and what youexpensive than using an independent caregiver.
cannot. You cannot change another's behavior, but youIn addition to Medicare and Medicaid, the federal
can change how you respond to it.government provides the National Family Caregiver
- Do not take on too much at once. Rather, break bigSupport Program. This program helps states to
tasks up into smaller steps and set realistic goals thatprovide services for caregivers. Every state offers
you can stick to.different types of services, many include respite care,
- If you begin to feel guilty, remind yourself that there issupport groups, individual counseling, caregiver training,
no such thing as a perfect caregiver and you areand help accessing additional benefits.