Coping With Mental Retardation

Although there may be differences because situationsto only be able to handle one instruction at a time.
vary, there are common characteristics in children withSometimes they will use words that they have heard
mental retardation issues.before without knowing what they mean, because
They have difficulty remaining focused. They havethey are mimicking others. This is natural. Ask them
difficulty with attention and they look around the room.what the word means. Help give them verbal language.
Keep reminding them to look at you. This focusesThey may use pronouns (I, you, me) inappropriately,
them back on you and what you are saying. Remindand it will be up to you to help them to figure out who
them gently that looking at the person that is speakingthey are talking about.
is paying attention to the person that is talkingThey may answer questions that you feel are beyond
They will have difficulty staying on task with thingstheir ability level. But don’t resist answering them.
they do not enjoy (e.g. homework, chores, etc). GentlyThey will notice, and this will frustrate them too. Do
redirection back to the task, while making sure thatyour best to bring it to their level and not make your
they are looking directly at you when you make thisanswer too complex.
redirection will be important.The rigid though processes of mentally retarded
They will tend not to hear as much when not lookingchildren make it difficult to learn from mistakes. This
directly at you because they are not attending to whatcan result in counter-productive behaviors. They have
you are saying. Their attention is divided betweenproblems with generalizing and need help with taking
what you are saying and whatever they are looking at.one situation and using the information from that
Children coping with mental retardation issues havesituation for the other situations. For example, when
difficulty with both expressing themselves andlearning about social skills, I would work with one skill
understanding what is being said to them. Furthermore,until they learn that skill. Then I add a skill until they learn
they get frustrated and confused when they can’tthe new skill. Then I add situations until they can add
express what they want to say. Tell them that it’ssituation themselves without cuing. The more difficult
okay, slow down, take a deep breath, and start over.the task, and the more effort involved, the more
Be patient. They may have difficultydifficulty they are going to have, the more the task is
understanding:directions or proceduresrapidgoing to be divided into smaller pieces.
speechcomplex sentences or instructionsabstractRepetition is the key here. When you teach a social
concepts – very concrete and focused on the hereskill or an anger management skill, repeat the different
and nowscenarios over and over, take a break, then do it all
It is important to recognize that the things you say mayover again. The next week, repeat the process. Think
need to be repeated several times and in severalabout when you had to learn your multiplication tables.
different ways. Give one instruction at a time. WhenYou repeated them over an over. The information
they complete that instruction or understand that oneneeds to be repeated over and over.
concept, then give the next instruction. They are likely