How do you create your dreams in your life?

How do you create a dream? What are yourplan for making it happen. Setting a step by step plan
dreams? Spend a few minutes, right now, writing themhas a better chance at success than does just having
down. Of course, dont edit your thoughts, just aska passing or recurring day dream. For me, cycling
what are my dreams? And start writing down thecross country happened because I made it happen. I
thoughts that come immediately to you. Make a list.took it step by step. Ask yourself; what are the pieces
Im a dreamer. I got it from my Dad. Several years agothat make this dream happen? What do I need to put
I looked at my life and wondered how did I get here? Itin place to create it?
felt like it had all just happened and I had watched andTake it one step at a time. First, write your dream or
participated but I hadnt necessarily been in the driversvision down. Write in great detail, as if it is happening
seat. I took some time to figure out what type ofright now or picture yourself in the vision. How does it
career I wanted. At the time I was a mid-levelfeel, how does it smell? What are the sounds you
manager in a non-profit organization serving peoplehear? What do you see? What are you doing? How
with disabilities. It was work I had been doing since Ihas it changed your life? Write the details including all
was 14 years old. I explored my desires and dreamsthe feelings that being in your vision creates.
through experiential adventure. First, I participated in aStep 2: What are the resources that you already have
72 day leadership course with Outward Bound. At thethat can help make the vision a reality? Money,
top of an 80 foot rappel I sat terrified behind darkmaterials, supplies, time, property, frequent flier miles,
sunglasses, wondering how did you get yourself in thisfriends, colleagues, and/or acquaintances? List them all.
mess? And the reality was I had signed up for theStep 3: What resources or supports do you need to
course and each step was a challenge andachieve your vision/dream/goal? List everything that
accomplishment.could help you in succeeding. This is not the place to
After finishing the Outward Bound course I returned towrite in winning the lottery. Each item needs to be
my non-profit job and continued to explore myrealistic. Things that seem out of reach are okay
destination. My work in residential programs withbecause these are often reachable, with determination
people with disabilities had been filled with creating lifeand a plan.
plans and program plans for the people we served.Step 4: What steps do you need to take to achieve
We looked at some key things:your vision/dream/goal? What are the steps? Break
1. What is your dream?the vision down into the steps that need to happen.
2. What are the resources you have available toThese often have a chronological order, but also may
accomplish/achieve your dream?have steps that have to keep happening over and
3. What resources do we need to create to supportover. The steps can become the smaller goals you
you in achieving your dream?work towards, so make them small and easy to
4. What are the steps you need to take in order toachieve.
move closer to your goal?Step 5: When will you know you have succeeded?
5. When will you know you have succeeded? WhatWhat will it look like, feel like, and sound like? This might
will it look like, feel like, and sound like?be similar to your vision that you developed earlier but
Through this process we created all sorts of new andit is an important step as it helps you to measure your
innovative living arrangements, jobs, communitysuccess. You can develop a measure for each step
supported goals for people.of the way and then check it off when you complete
I did much the same thing. I found a long lost passionit. Or buy stars and give yourself a star for success
for cycling and joined a bike club and started riding. Ifor each step along the way. I have used stars for
hadnt really ridden a bicycle in 15 years. I could barelyyears with staff working with me. People think it
ride 20 miles and didnt know how to fix a flat tire. As Isounds silly, but we all got a charge from them when
started riding I joined a bike club. Soon, I was tellingwe saw them on our paper in elementary school. As
people that I was riding across the country next year.adults, we go right back to those feelings when we
Within a couple of months I had completed a bicycleget one as adults. It makes the process a game. The
tour leadership training, had a national organization tocheck marks or stars become reinforcing for you as
sponsor the tour and was planning the route with anyou succeed. They build enthusiasm and energy for
advisory committee overseeing the plan.success and they keep you moving forward.
In creating the Peace Tour I had to keep working eachI recommend once you are clear on your plan that you
step over and over to create the overall plan. And Ialso tell people about it. Share your excitement and
ended up with a great tour route. One year later, I wasenthusiasm with others. They can be your resources
biking across the country with a very small group and Iand perhaps resources you didnt realize existed.
loved it. I love the feel of my bike with packs on it andTalking about your plan helps to move it forward.
the feel of the open road. A bicycle with everything IWhen I started telling members of the bike club I rode
needed, right on it, a true recreational vehicle.with that I was cycling across the country they started
Can we create the life we want? Can we take ahelping me train. They made sure I was out riding and
vision or a dream and make it happen? Definitely. It isriding far. They helped me ride hard and fast and
what is done in large corporations all the time. It is theprepare for the Rocky Mountains. Share the plan.
clarity of vision and of purpose that provides a clearThe last step is to do it!
path or direction for the people within an organization.Being a dreamer is great when you take hold of the
As individuals, we too, have vision and can develop adream and move it into your life. Dream, create, live.