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Article #94: How do you create your dreams in your life?

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How do you create a dream? What are your can develop a plan for making it happen.
dreams? Spend a few minutes, right now, Setting a step by step plan has a better
writing them down. Of course, don't edit chance at success than does just having a
your thoughts, just ask -what are my passing or recurring day dream. For me,
dreams? And start writing down the cycling cross country happened because I
thoughts that come immediately to you. made it happen. I took it step by step.
Make a list. Ask yourself; what are the pieces that
I'm a dreamer. I got it from my Dad. make this dream happen? What do I need
Several years ago I looked at my life and to put in place to create it?
wondered - how did I get here? It felt Take it one step at a time. First, write
like it had all just happened and I had your dream or vision down. Write in
watched and participated but I hadn't great detail, as if it is happening right
necessarily been in the driver's seat. I now or picture yourself in the vision.
took some time to figure out what type of How does it feel, how does it smell?
career I wanted. At the time I was a What are the sounds you hear? What do
mid-level manager in a non-profit you see? What are you doing? How has it
organization serving people with changed your life? Write the details
disabilities. It was work I had been including all the feelings that being in
doing since I was 14 years old. I your vision creates.
explored my desires and dreams through Step 2: What are the resources that you
experiential adventure. First, I already have that can help make the
participated in a 72 day leadership vision a reality? Money, materials,
course with Outward Bound. At the top of supplies, time, property, frequent flier
an 80 foot rappel I sat terrified behind miles, friends, colleagues, and/or
dark sunglasses, wondering - how did you acquaintances? List them all.
get yourself in this mess? And the Step 3: What resources or supports do you
reality was I had signed up for the need to achieve your vision/dream/goal?
course and each step was a challenge and List everything that could help you in
accomplishment. succeeding. This is not the place to
After finishing the Outward Bound course write in winning the lottery. Each item
I returned to my non-profit job and needs to be realistic. Things that seem
continued to explore my destination. My out of reach are okay because these are
work in residential programs with people often reachable, with determination and a
with disabilities had been filled with plan.
creating life plans and program plans for Step 4: What steps do you need to take to
the people we served. We looked at some achieve your vision/dream/goal? What are
key things: the steps? Break the vision down into
1. What is your dream? the steps that need to happen. These
2. What are the resources you have often have a chronological order, but
available to accomplish/achieve your also may have steps that have to keep
dream? happening over and over. The steps can
3. What resources do we need to create to become the smaller goals you work
support you in achieving your dream? towards, so make them small and easy to
4. What are the steps you need to take in achieve.
order to move closer to your goal? Step 5: When will you know you have
5. When will you know you have succeeded? succeeded? What will it look like, feel
What will it look like, feel like, and like, and sound like? This might be
sound like? similar to your vision that you developed
Through this process we created all sorts earlier but it is an important step as it
of new and innovative living helps you to measure your success. You
arrangements, jobs, community supported can develop a measure for each step of
goals for people. the way and then check it off when you
I did much the same thing. I found a complete it. Or buy stars and give
long lost passion for cycling and joined yourself a star for success for each step
a bike club and started riding. I hadn't along the way. I have used stars for
really ridden a bicycle in 15 years. I years with staff working with me. People
could barely ride 20 miles and didn't think it sounds silly, but we all got a
know how to fix a flat tire. As I charge from them when we saw them on our
started riding I joined a bike club. paper in elementary school. As adults,
Soon, I was telling people that I was we go right back to those feelings when
riding across the country - "next year". we get one as adults. It makes the
Within a couple of months I had completed process a game. The check marks or stars
a bicycle tour leadership training, had a become reinforcing for you as you
national organization to sponsor the tour succeed. They build enthusiasm and
and was planning the route with an energy for success and they keep you
advisory committee overseeing the plan. moving forward.
In creating the Peace Tour I had to keep I recommend once you are clear on your
working each step over and over to create plan that you also tell people about it.
the overall plan. And I ended up with a Share your excitement and enthusiasm with
great tour route. One year later, I was others. They can be your resources and
biking across the country with a very perhaps resources you didn't realize
small group and I loved it. I love the existed. Talking about your plan helps
feel of my bike with packs on it and the to move it forward. When I started
feel of the open road. A bicycle with telling members of the bike club I rode
everything I needed, right on it, a true with that I was cycling across the
recreational vehicle. country they started helping me train.
Can we create the life we want? Can we They made sure I was out riding and
take a vision or a dream and make it riding far. They helped me ride hard and
happen? Definitely. It is what is done fast and prepare for the Rocky Mountains.
in large corporations all the time. It Share the plan.
is the clarity of vision and of purpose The last step is to do it!
that provides a clear path or direction Being a dreamer is great when you take
for the people within an organization. hold of the dream and move it into your
As individuals, we too, have vision and life. Dream, create, live.






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